What is Erotic Intelligence? | Esther Perel

What is Erotic Intelligence? | Esther Perel

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The main question people ask before committing to a marriage or relationship is, “What is love?”

In this inspiring Mindvalley talk, Esther Perel, celebrity therapist and relationship expert informs us that couples who continue to maintain intimacy throughout their relationship, report higher relationship satisfaction compared to couples who keep things the same.

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In this video, “What is Erotic Intelligence?” Ted Talk speaker, Esther Perel, walks us through the powerful emotions we feel in relationships and explains how to achieve contentment in your relationship.

01:17 What motivates Esther Perel
06:55 Anonymous conversation of couples
08:41 How Esther help couples to solve their intimacy issues
14:04 Why Esther is interested in Sexuality
20:33 What a good relationship means
25:42 Meaning of success to Esther

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Not only is Esther Perel a couples therapist, but she is also a psychotherapist who has worked with many people who experience powerful emotions related to loneliness.

Her theory that the tension between the need to have a stable relationship and the need for self exploration is the main challenge on how to deal with loneliness.

By maintaining sexuality and romanticism in marriage and relationships, Esther Perel believes this is a practical way to achieve happiness and contentment in life.

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  1. Esther, I would pay money to get the answer to this one: you talk of asking questions, providing a different frame, but not answering questions or talking about yourself because that would cause collapse and make you a model. If it wasn't you, it was someone else, but I've listened where, in today's world counselors and police officers and caregivers are doing exactly that, becoming role models. Remember when it was celebrates? Everyone could use a better one. So how do you deal with that while avoiding all the answers? John.

  2. Esther. I was thinking more about the situation. It's fine to stay out of the way. People find lasting change that way. Your mistake though, is thinking you can help someone and not matter. The fact that they are there means you matter to them. You have to work with that. There is no way to take yourself out of the equation. Whether you express them at the time or not, the things here, how you grew up, how you see the world, will all make a difference, whether you chose to share them or not.

  3. May Yahveh Sebaot bless You, Esther Perel, and keep You;
    May His Lord Jesus Christ make his face shine upon You;
    Esther Perel, and be Gracious to You!
    May the Holy Spirit turn His face towards you, Esther Perel;
    and give you Peace!!" For I found much Spirit and Wisdom in your words.
    Written by a son, raised by a Mother in her fathers house, then the Father was too scrub to do the right things and stay put, but loved his friends and booze more. If they had you, their marriage would have been saved, and I had had a better childhood. Its good to know, these days can learn their lessons… <3 ^^ UWU

  4. Loved it but there is a female
    equivalent for “emasculated” – it’s “unsexed” which used mainly to describe women who engaged in traditionally masculine pursuits.

  5. I had a lot of admiration for this doctor but when she's trying to sleep in the acceptance of homosexual unions I cannot accept that… It is not natural

  6. 18:05 I mean… there might not be a word for it but that hasn't stopped men from "efeminating" women in all periods of History. Burqas and female genital mutilation are two blatant examples.

  7. What is she wearing and WHAT is she talking about? is like we humans just cant think for ourselves anymore….and have to see nuts like this way to often, what about younger men and older woman then? next she will be on about this as so many stupid woman on here do already who aren't in a similar relationship themselves. I got bored within 5 minutes with the sound off…

  8. I'm not buying any of this. When the fire of passion is extinguished, there is no way to start it up again. That's why people move on from one relationship to the next. It's human nature.

  9. 23:23 La relajación es importante, TOPGIRLS.UNO
    los mortales abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer

    15:55 Setacy:
    11:12 Sun:
    11:12 Hopi:
    00:18 Joonie:
    18:00 Yoongi:
    15:55 Amoy:

    23:23 Son unos de los mejores conciertos, no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 🖤
    Las elecciones cinematográficas y artísticas son brillantes. Referencias culturales europeas realmente interesantes. Ojalá la

  10. In the West, love is no longer really tied to marriage and family and something deeper. That is part of the problem. One person has multiple partners and so we feel the peer pressure to do the same and if we don’t enjoy that then we feel like something is wrong with us. We’ve all been hacked and adulting is pretty much unlearning everything you’ve been forced to learn or hear with no choice in the matter.

  11. Hermosa elección LIKEXXX.UNO
    de los mejores conciertos ❤

    2:30 Ariana Marie
    3:40 Brenna Sparks
    3:50 Natalia Starr
    4:45 Keisha Grey
    4:53 Aria Michaels
    6:10 Mia Martinez
    6:40 Carmen Valentina
    6:50 Riley Reid
    8:30 Gabriella Lane
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    22:22 Son unos de los mejores conciertos, no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente zifn 🖤 15:55 Son unos de los mejores conciertos

  12. Esther… You're amazing!
    This is super important & regretfully because of radical religious people is not taught anywhere…
    It should be taught everywhere!!

  13. 3:23 Hermosa elección Likexxx.UnO
    los mortales abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer

    10:10 Hopi:
    11:12 Sun:
    00:18 Joonie:
    18:00 Yoongy:
    23:23 Son unos de los mejores conciertos
    mañas no se la

    Las elecciones cinematográficas y artísticas son brillantes. Referencias culturales europeas realmente interesantes. Ojalá la cultura europea se representara más a menudo tan bellamente. No puedo dejar de decir ''oh, esto es hermoso'' a lo largo del video. Luz, en serio… el que se encargue de la iluminación, genial.