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They act normal in the begining , the part that enrages me most is how badly iteffectsthe children the lies the control the manipulation the objectification as if no one matters but these monsters !
It's very heavy it's traumatic! The betrayal is they pretend to b somthing thier not !
an invitation off people's views on this video by Eckhart Tolle
Mm-yeah, this video was mistitled (probably on purpose), a complete waste of 10:44 minutes and seconds of my precious time. So in other words, this dude supports cheaters and excuses their evil behavior with a label of "unconsciousness" and shifts the blame onto the, um, "conscious" victim of betrayal by saying their mind has concocted the story of someone betraying them…. uh, here's a good story my mind and consciousness created while watching this vid: Eckhart Tolle was taking his daily stroll down a street, sun was shinning, birds chirping, then he suddenly walked right into my fist and knocked himself out unconscious.
I don't understand why people would find betrayal so
Humorous???
After 22 years of giving my heart and soul to my ex she
Betrayed me on so many levels
Why people are so selfish today is beyond me!
I can only hope that someone is so selfish to screw
Over their husband or wife after so many years
Together that they to will experience the same thing
Happening to them
Would love a friend like Eckhart❤️
Betrayal in any form, business or personal, is criminal, end of story. The police and courts should not respond to people who believe that one is 100% responsible for their fate. There is no accounting in this for manipulation and control of others, especially if one has been manipulated since childhood.
I have been trying to work on this for months, looking for points of view, answers, etc. and i cannot seem to find a way out of anger, resentment, and feeling indefinitely trapped. The "partner", who i had the misfortune of marrying, has been living off of my work and earnings for 10 years, and abandoned most responsibilities on my shoulders (we have 2 children). I have already made peace with the fact that he will never be able to repay me that investment I put in him while he was "self-employed" trying to build various businesses (despite my disagreement and need for him to provide money – I was unable to cover all expenses with my only salary and had a growing debt), and with the greatly uneven share of chores. I have tried to make peace with his dominating persona, and let it go since our relationship is now over. Learned the lesson, I just need to move forward. But he is leeching on, trying to grab as much as possible "for the children", for whom I have agreed to do shared custody. Pension for the children, I have no issue with, never have, since for the past 10 years I covered everything for them and I love them and am a responsible person and mother. But to now divide my military pension of the past 10 years with him, "think of the children", is just too much for me. I have burned myself out for 10 years doing practically everything alone, and now he would get a substantial pension, on top of 50% home belongings and a payment of "his" share of the house for which he only put a small piece of the down payment on 10 years ago, never anything else since? How much more do I have to pay to get him off for good? And I thought I was being decent to not leave him homeless and carried on until he could make sufficient money to take care of himself (another 8 years!), because he is the father of my children after all. This is how I am being thanked. He keeps coming back regularly asking for this other thing, and that other thing, justifying everything as his. How do I get rid of him, and of the anger, to finally go on with my life? I have the feeling he will always ask for more. Legally, I am screwed if we go through courts rather than mediation. I am drained. I lost so much during those 10 years, and I am just finally coming back in the green financially (the past 5 months – he left 9 months ago), mostly thanks to a lump sum from an unfortunate dear personal loss, and am now spending less than I earn (what a relief, finally!). I need him to get off of me. But I need my pension to effect my career change I have been wanting to do for the past 10 years. The biggest absurdity is he wants us to stay friends. Oh, and he has an acharya title (buddhist bishop), was doing 3 hours of prayer a day, 365 days a year – shouldn't he be conscious enough? (yes, a bit of sarcasm here.)
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Listening again.. Too abstract for me ?
1:06 eckhart tries to shrug off laughing at the thought of lesbians, turns all serious ???
its not funny echkart
too many men laugh at things not funny…
BS
completely left trauma n shock out of the factors
When you were betrayed so absolutely… you will find it difficult to see that it was done frivolously and unconsciously. When your whole world was destroyed.
Is revenge justified by betrayal?
i cant imagine how someone can betrayed you in 4 years
I forgave and forgave and forgave….that act of compassion, feeling sorry for where he was lacking consciousness, got me nowhere in the end. I had to get bitter and angry and NOT FORGIVE to move on. 3 years later, I still have love for him but I have a great distaste which borders on the emotions of hate and hurt. I pray to God our paths never cross again. I do not care about forgiving him. If I do, my fear is that I would allow him back in. I am an extremely forgiving and compassionate person. That will never change except when it pertains to him.
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I got this. Wow
Wow, you have freed me in minutes!, thank you for the insight
so good.
This is a wonderful subject, who has not been betrayed in these times? I have found that people are more interested in how it looks than how it is . This leads to a community where everyone is wearing this faux personality in public and a completely different identity in private ie. some one who seems to be sweet and kind in public, then you find out they have road rage so bad you are afraid to get in a car with them. Thank you for this perspective, as I always try to be a person of compassion, but was struggling with this one.Guess this is more a betrayal of self for them. I will still stay clear of the" faux" in this world , call me country.I love you all.
To those wondering why people are laughing. Laughing IS a coping mechanism. While I was in terrible pain (does it matter what it was?) I found myself laffing hysterically. It is how we bear the impossible. I think it goes way back in our evolution of survival. I have seen abused dogs grin and wag their tails, turn on their back showing their belly, as they were being beaten. It IS a natural part of Nature. If you can't escape you try to survive.
Love that guy.. He always offers great advice for the mental challenges i face
Be very aware of the stories the mind creates is excellent
Hello. I'm struggling here. My spouse slept with someone and lied about it, manipulating me to believe I was crazy for questioning it. I felt that something was off the whole time. This was difficult to take in because my painbody is still very active. I need to quiet my pain body becasue the pain is unbearable right now. Any guidance is welcome. Please and thank you. ~ Jess
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Thank God for you, Eckhart☘☘☘
Thanks
Best video on betrayal
Perceived betrayal brought me back to Eckhart's genius. Also just lost the love of my life…my mum. This collapsed part of my identity.
Unfortunately for most it's a hard lesson to accept.. including me at times. But let's be honest he's right. If we dropped the mental story …problem solved largely. However many like me just didn't let it go and fed the story with way more energy than it deserved. And I suffered badly.
Alot of the time it's our respective pain bodies feeding it.
Ps. New Earth should be taught in schools..
Wow- your talk was so powerful. It feels like a wind blew through me and planted me in a grove of trees. Thank you.
What can we learn from betrayal? Self-reliance and the ability to let go in order to prioritize what truly matters in our lives.
Betrayal is so painful because it is so shocking and unexpected. It’s hard to imagine that the people closest to us could or would ever hurt us. However, just because betrayal is unexpected doesn't mean it needs to happen again.
The betrayal I find hardest to forgive is the one of not trusting my intuition and instead attracted to the sensed danger, seeing it as a personal challenge to overcome rather than an opportunity to nod my head in recognition of the situation and move on.
This video is one of my favourites! Huge treasure, huge breath, huge deliberation, huge huge huge! Once more, thank you so much for all, Eckhart Tolle! Bless you! ❤️