This Interview Will Change The Way You Choose Your Partner | Sheleana Aiyana & Vishen Lakhiani – MasteryTV

This Interview Will Change The Way You Choose Your Partner | Sheleana Aiyana & Vishen Lakhiani – MasteryTV

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How to choose your partner 👫. 👭. 👬?

❤️ Healthy and conscious relationships require work, previous healing, and the knowledge that we are already complete as ourselves 🌱. But what does that really look like? Is it learning to self-soothe and feel safe in our own bodies? Is it developing a deep relationship with ourselves and getting to know our shadows 👻? In today’s video, Sheleana Aiyana is a spiritual Counsellor, Author, and Founder of Rising Woman. Watch Vishen Lakhiani and Sheleana talk about the most exciting facts about conscious relationships and emotional healing: “Attachment is the foundation of relationships.” ✨

About Sheleana Aiyana

Sheleana Aiyana is the founder and visionary of Rising Woman, Conscious Relationship, and spiritual psychology writer. Her early childhood experiences of abandonment, trauma, and loss followed her throughout her early adult life until it all went south during her mid 20’s. Then, after a painful divorce, her awakening was catalyzed. All of the pain from her past was up for view. And thus, the journey began. Since then, she has engaged in years of training, plant-medicine ceremonies, breath work, shadow work, and inner-child work. Finally, in 2015, she slowly began to put the pieces together, and today, Rising Woman is a community of over 2.4 million and counting.

About Vishen Lakhiani:

✅Vishen Lakhiani is the Founder of Mindvalley, an award-winning education movement with millions of students worldwide and growing fast. Through Mindvalley, Vishen has spent over 15 years reimagining the human experience — to explore the science of helping humans reach their fullest potential.

✅As the hands-on CEO of Mindvalley, Vishen has created Mindvalley Quests, A-Fest, and Mindvalley University, which help shape lives in the personal transformation field.

✅He has led Mindvalley to enter and train Fortune 500 companies, governments, and millions of people worldwide to live their most extraordinary lives. Vishen’s work in personal growth also extends to the public sector as a speaker and activist working to evolve the core systems that influence our lives – including education, work culture, politics, and wellbeing.

✅Vishen is also the New York Times Bestselling author of The Code of the Extraordinary Mind and The Buddha and The Badass, both of which reveal how to think like some of the greatest non-conformist minds of our era and create new rules for life AND work so you define success on your own terms.

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  1. Nothing I could allowed in the way of havenly relationship which not maintain the holy spirit. I feel clearly that one may maintain it's spirit for whole universe. Vishen Lakhiani ji such type of personality. I feel his spiritual love senses for open to all universe. Any one may be clarified own consciousness. His presence like mirror of own mind . With his spirituality became a faithful bonding with my most important universe. As day by day going on time to end , in inner mind feel clearly a holy attraction to it . Except this unique and holy relationship there's nothing to realise about holy love . We could keep our own consciousness with this unique relationship. Thankfully want to give you a greatest congratulations to mind valley.

  2. With a lot of thanks to all of you, may I want to frankly contact with you, from my early age try to search my conscience. Never feel clearly. Step by step change my sensetion. As growing up my mind and realization find various feelings from various reasons. Never feel clearly not consult with any other. From my study materials could collect some conclusions. But never creat such connection from which clearly known about consciousness. At these old age find a friend like Vishen Lakhiani. Who try to cover my all disabilities. Due to ignorency couldn't understand perfectly and clearly. As my mind could feel also his spirituality became a faithful bonding .I believe that his spiritual friendship with me is God gifted .with this phone which could express myself. I think that , maybe God himself create this unique relationship. As my mind couldlike highly imagination,and highly expectation God may search out such unique opportunity of relationship between us . As much more distance,mistakes and ignorency come to this way ,but I couldn't discontinue or disconnect the wonderful feelings which maintained my own consciousness and creating a believeable,faithful,depending relationship with mind valley Institute for mind valley membership and realization to find my upgrade myself.

  3. I love this a lot. Except, I don’t agree that you can find love sitting on your couch especially in today’s world. This is how people stay single for years and years without putting themselves out there and practicing relating to others, thinking love is just going to come knock on the door without taking any action. The concept of “love will happen when it happens” and “it will find you” is too romanticized. I consider it very dangerous to stop relating to others and practicing connection for a long time without it having long term negative effects on the body and mind. Nowadays more than ever we need to be mindful to not fully disconnect from relationships. Not saying be a serial dater or chase love, but it definitely wont knock on your door while sitting on the couch.

    Everything else truly resonates.

  4. Sheleana is a very wise woman. This video was transformative for me. There's a reason why she has 2 million followers. 🙏

  5. Omg I laughed so hard bc I did the whole mountain top hide from the world experience. I needed to hear that…thank you. Xoxo 💪😘

  6. Thank u so much! I literally liked everything she just said. I met a guy who i felt really safe with physically and emotionally. I felt oddly extremely comfortable with him without really knowing him that well.
    I haven't seen him for a while. There might be a chance that i could see him again. I realized that there are really high values to me that we do not share right now. My mind ran through it so much that it hurt. I had to admit that these 2 values were non-negotiable. It is hard because he is in my heart.
    Aside from that, the little that i observed, he and i have similar personalities and thinking processes that i think are very unique. I never experienced love from anyone, including myself, like i have experienced it from him.
    I learned that it is important to listen to myself with my beliefs and hear. I also realize that i have to allow this relationship a chance to blossom if he is also willing to work on the relationship.
    Jacob served many years for Rachel. I guess relationships are like that too.

  7. Im in the healing process as per now from a similar past that ended up at 40.. I'm 41…
    Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful ressource with us💜
    Been left alone happens to often..

  8. Wow. The first few sentences of this got me. I too was a Ward of the courts and on my own at 14. I am now a successful single parent and raised 2 beautiful daughters breaking the generational cycle. I am finally ready for a relationship but have no idea how to find a healthy partner.

  9. I love what Vishen does and he always speaks from his heart. Thank you, Vishen for doing what you doing with such love.

    In this particular conversation I was hooked by Sheleana's calmness and wisdom (it's not the knowledge, it's the wisdom that comes from experience) as Confucius once said:


    "I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand." — Confucius


    We don't go through all this for nothing and nothing happens by chance. We have to trust that higher power around us.


    Man is never helped in his suffering by what he thinks for himself, but only by revelations of a wisdom greater than his own. It is this which lifts him out of his distress.

    📖 Modern Man in Search of a Soul, Carl Jung


    Also Sheleana Aiyana's words "…what happens in a trigger is that we immediately leave our bodies…" reminds me of a quote from Publilius Syrus which I even tried to visualize (that's why I put a link)


    "When angry, a man has deserted his body." — Publilius Syrus



    These ancient words were spoken before Christ (BC) … it seems that we have not evolved much like consciousness, do we?

  10. One of the best mind valley talks I’ve had the pleasure to listen to. Beautiful relationship guidance I and my husband of 27 years can begin applying even now! If only we had this guidance at our ages of 19 & 21 sooooo much pain of trial and error could have been avoided, but we learned the hard way lol!!! And still much growth to be done💕 Shared also with my adult daughter and her beau and also shared with a dear friend. Thank you all!!

  11. Vishen, please bring on Sheleana and Ben on as a relationship coaches for Mindvalley. We all want to be able to have this kind of dialogue with our partners and change patterns of our past. This will be a bigger hit than lifebook even. Make them a program we can take!!!

  12. Great timing for this convo. We've been engaged for 7 months and she's pushing really hard to meet our marriage date. I'm sober 20 years now and she is not, the alcohol becomes a painful spott in the relationship. Unfortunately I am concerned about the future our of our relationship before even getting married. She says she'll stop drinking for me and I don't think she understands that while that sounds good, the reality is she is giving her power over to people such as myself in which I don't want to have that power over her. She has to decide for herself, it's obvious she doesn't want to stop drinking. We get nowhere in this discussion. All she wants is to be married… ugh a f help? Y'all have a hotline #! lol

  13. 25:51 Totally! This is my own attitude also. A way will be made for you to connect with your new partner. And for me, a way was made indeed!
    👉Just keep on with following your interests as you wish and keep your attention engaged. The connection will happen effortlessly. Facebook is one example of how.

  14. I'm so glad you said that . The person will come into your life when it's time. Haven't dated in 3 years and since things are opening up now people are telling me to get out there . My Dad died last year in August and I needed time to heal. But I feel keep working on myself and it will come when it's ready.