The Courage to Let Go

The Courage to Let Go

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  1. Coming across this video is like GOD nudging me forward. Every sentence you've crafted spoke to me with such depth. I cannot thank you enough!!!

  2. I like the sentiment of this video, but all my small mess-ups led to a HUGE mess-up that cost me a crucial relationship. I am now in depression and am struggling to want to live. Why did I have to learn this lesson?!

  3. I have the professional help, but still the ruminating continues, it feels like an addiction & have been diagnosed with complex depression, PTSD & other labels, i understand it but the bad days like today are just so painful!! Letting go with mental health is so not easy cause the thoughs are not your fault, its a crippling feeling, especially when the love of yr life leaves u because of yr unconcious behaviours, i hope & pray every minute for peace to come & for one day him & others to understand this pain!!!! Instead of being abandoned!!! So please help me to understand how to let go??! Thankyou for your video, i relate & wish it were that easy or maybe takes others more time, its been 18 months, i certainly hope its not a life time! I try to be grateful for what i had & have & that there are so many people worse off than me in this world but pain is pain & everybodys emotional levels are different.

    Thankyou again.

  4. The chapter is over , they are gone. Go to the Church, Release the baggage , wonderful message . Brendon you are a influencer !!!!, you hit the target every time . Clarity is wonderful

  5. @Brendon i was crying when everytime i watched your video or read your 7 habits book, i appreciate you share all of your knowledges for everyone and help ppl like me, we need it! Thanks so much!

  6. Good morning Brendan I hope you are well with the COVID19 at the moment. I have only just discovered you since being on lockdown from COVID. I have had a bad time since Jan 2020 and watching your videos on positivity and letting go and getting over break up have really helped me. Thankyou so much. You are amazing.

  7. That was a behavioral problem, not an identity problem.. man, this just healed me from my BIGGEST hurts. And one of them had been with me for 17 years!! 17!!! I knew i made mistakes, i knew it wasn't who i was, but i just couldn't forgive myself and let go. Now i DID. THANK YOU 😢💛💛💛// Thank you for all your videos, they are gems for me, always so helpful! And i so love your energy! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 Please keep doing what you are doing 🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  8. Thank you, Brendon! Again those thoughts helped me a lot!
    BTW: A really musicially quote from your video! I love it – maybe I should make a song out of that!!!! <3
    "I got a journal and a green tea, its just me and the green tea, so you see, we got this opportunity …." greetings from Berlin (GER), and again THANK U!

  9. Thank you so much for this video. I believe i may have internalized a lot of hurts in my past, now that i think about it. It’s no wonder most of my associations lead right back to my trauma. I will now work on decoupling and processing. Thank you!