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Negative people will always be around, so here’s some ideas to help you deal with them. Summary below! Attend Brendon’s …
Negative people will always be around, so here’s some ideas to help you deal with them. Summary below! Attend Brendon’s …
Thank you!!!
MATTHEW 22:36-40 how we deal with difficult people when all of us can't understand why ????????? people are dying MATTHEW 10:16-22 EPHESIANS 6:12 ?
I find it very unhealthy when people are looking for everything wrong with you and now their running out of things to find wrong with me . Yes the negative pool is exusting it’s draining.
Love the introducing the postive things your greatful for .
I have a negative best friend who is always negative and never wants to go out 🙁 I’m trying to be the best role model that I possibly can
This is sage advice Brendon. I've been dealing with some energy issues at home, but this idea of 'challenging ourselves' is a great shift of perspective. Thanks for all the work you do. Rock on.
So rule of thumb is just be positive introduce positive conversation/activity and emphathy them and take over as a positive leader.
But I am just getting started. It really difficult to spend time with them. I decided to stay away
Ignore the haters have fun
Mine is a family member im invariably sad. She's very giving and all but she doesn't let the worst days of life go.
Really needed this just right now!
Relationships are about connection. I don't see the point of using other people to practice to manage our emotions. We wouldn't be fully present in the conversation.
It's so energy draining to level up negative people and it's so poisonous
In most cases they have an addiction that can't be cured… nothing you can do about that.. just kick em out!
Get rid of the cancers in your life. Period.
Sir, can we chat on some of your account I really needed help
Thank you for the tips ??
you're trying to cope up with them yes they are yesterdays garbage just throw/cut out them….cause you can please them 1-2 times but not forever !
i need avoid negative people
Thanks for sharing. Just one tip, also this video was 5 years ago so you might have learnt this along the way but please also share the ‘how to’ when giving out advice. You tell us to use the negative energy but not how. I just notice people do a lot of this and it leaves other people in a space where we know what to do but not how.
You hear people say forgive others for your own peace but rarely anyone explains the step by step process of how to even begin to forgive someone.
When I give advice I also share the how to and how I’ve done it from my own personal experience and I get complimented often on my advice giving skills.
Good!
Ive tried logic and emphasizing on this one person but he just only focus on negativity. He wants me to follow his ridicolous unrealistic demands. We live in the same house so I cant catch a break. So I figure Im just gonna buy a Spyra 2. And everytime he starts an argument, im just gonna blast him with a super soaker. Because there is just no way of reasoning and I am doing everything to focus on positivity. But this guy fills my head with constant negativity and its really affecting me. So Im gonna make it fun for myself by making him wet
My daughter has paranoid scizophrenia for 20 years .I could handle it before as I let her vent but then she was fun before . Now it’s constant negative and she can’t control it . So I need to hang out with more friends . When I had menopause I prayed I wanted my brain back , funny saying but before I could take people negative talk and let it pass through my brain . It’s hard for me to explain but I bought a book on menopause and really helped me also I took meds which helped . I felt back to myself after 3 years and no meds . So happy about that.I need to focus on self care and self esteem . It really helps your advice thank you .
What if the genuinely hate u?
You make sense! They're EVERYWHERE!
0:17 yep ? ?
Thank you so much Brendon ?
Hi Brandon, great to meet you. Another one on the list is to not get surprised if you know they will respond in that way
Thanks Brendon!
This is actually the real solution. Thanks for sharing.
I SEE WHAT U TRYING TO SAY… THAT'S NOT ALWAYS GOOD ADVICE. IF YOUR IN A NEGATIVE OR ABSUIVE RELATIONSHIP YOU NEED TO EXIT. SAME AS FRIENDSHIP AND FAMILY… IM SURE YOU HEARD OF FAMILY K![[ING ?EACH OTHER. THE GUY WHO USUALLY BREAKS UP THE FIGHT.. END UP LOSING HIS LIFE.. WHAT THEY SAY WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF. THAT NEGATIVE ENERGY WILL RUB OFF ON YOU AND DRAIN U MENTALLY/PHYSICALLY/EMOTIONALLY. CAN CAUSE HEALTH PROBLEMS OR SOME GOOD RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE BECAUSE NOW YOUR NEGATIVE. IF STUCK WITH SOMEONE LIMIT AS MUCH EXPOSURE AS POSSIBLE. AND IF U CAN TRY TO MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND WHY. IF NOT KEEP YOUR DISTANCE TRUST ME!!!!!!!
I love that
Staying away from negative people is the most believable thing one can ever do with.
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https://youtu.be/J7nUuxaiz8Q
Let them know anything they might hate is used for whatever they won't hate.
As a negative person i have no idea how to see the world in a positive light. Is ridiculous that we are being judged by people that doesn’t blink when they think positively. Being negative is not a choice, is how the brain works, I would chose to blend with positive people so i dont hear complaints about my negativity anymore. Do positive people really think they are chosing to be like that ? ?
I don't think you should go out of your way too much to change people. I think it is somtimes better to move on. But yes I agree if its a one off or now and then. but if its someone your always around and its rubbing off on you I think you should seperate yourself.
Well even in the real world you can go no contact with even negative and toxic family members. Imagine that.
And don't interact with your rude coworker so much. Just interact with them about work as much as you have to and keep it pushing. You can't take certain advice nowadays. Why? Because we deal with a LOT of unstable people. It goes way past someone just choosing to be a little negative here and there. These people could be very dangerous and detrimental to you, in more ways then one. Let's not take these type of things lightly, and act as if everyone is overreacting. There is the story about Cain and Abel in the Bible. And countless of stories that we here nowadays that don't end well. Due to people acting like a negative, jealous, nasty, and bitter person was harmless. I pray and hope to keep my distance in JESUS name. Thanks but no thanks. And people can think or assume what they want about me. I have learned many things about people a lot here lately.