How to build (and rebuild) trust | Frances Frei

How to build (and rebuild) trust | Frances Frei

Turn Off Light
Auto Next
More
Add To Playlist Watch Later
Report

Report


Leave your comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

30 Comments

  1. I am at 6:46 and I already got the answer why I have so much trust issues. Cell Phone! You are so right. Its not that I think he doesn't love me. Its because I think he doesn't know about my feelings because he is so much on the phone. His work requires him to be on the phone all the time. I know his not cheating but I still feels skeptical because I think he is not empathetic enough towords me.

  2. 100% agree. I have said this for YEARS. If you pretend to be someone you are not you are being MANIPULATIVE. This is a fact. You are trying to control how people perceive you… Someone who is trying to manipulate me are NOT trustworthy.

  3. I made a mistake in the past, I once had a problem with pronogrophy which began to damage me and broke the trust with me and my parents. It seems that whenever I'm home alone with access to a computer they get anxiety on what I'm up to. Ive been clean ever since but I feel like there's something I'm missing to try and reconnect to them, idk if anyone here is gonna see this 2022 comment on a 2018 video but if anyone has any advice id appreciate the help

  4. Thank u so much fr enlightening us…i hv stopped trusting people..becoz i find them fake self imersed.. insensitive…so what I feel is not vague . Being authentic in a such a cruel competitive Indian muslim society is biggest challenge a woman can face but i love n embrace all hardship and pain on this journey…people may damage my trust but will always find me trustworthy..that's the. Beauty..inside all of us but it's neglected n. ignored

  5. Eduardo Frei: trust is the belief, the faith, the hope that a human being has about something or someone and depending on the trust that is held, the human being will act. When there is confidence in anything, life is faced in a more agile, appropriate and objective way and goals are achieved by overcoming any obstacle, when this confidence is lost practically everything in life is lost and almost nothing is achieved. Excellent reflection of Frances Frei

  6. loved the logic wobble part. I think if someone is fiercely logical, then even the ones who don't trust us buy that because its fiercely logical. and if something is logical, it is the easiest to communicate, aint it? There can't be a communication wobble on a fiercely right logic. If there is, the logic is flawed.

  7. I told my girlfirend that only me and couple of my friends were at the club and i lied.. there were two girls who i didn’t speak at all but i just told her that we were alone for her not to worry and to go to sleep peacefully. Her friend alse went to that same club that night and saw us with those 2 girls and off course told her…she asked me multiple times in a spam of few week who was in that club at our table and i just wanted for her to trust me that we were alone but she knew the truth…
    Yesterday we had conversation and she told me she had no trust in me, that she stills love me but doesent trust me.. i feel very very very sad.. any tips on gaining her trust again?

  8. I revisit this talk fairly regularly. I was initially drawn to how warm and welcoming Frances appeared. I was met ten-fold. Her model is my teaching inspiration, as well as the pivotal asset to problem-solving some of my own relationships. Each listen brings something new, and I cling to each word she says. I cannot give high enough thanks to her.

  9. When the people around us deflect, dismiss and deny our concerns, we are at an impasse. Gaslighting seems to have become the favoured method of not communicating. Unfortunately too often the point seems to be domination, not mutual understanding.
    Unfortunately forced communication is not always, if often authentic, but I admire the optimism here, and can’t disagree with the ideal, and the imperative for that change.

  10. Next time you want to build trust with anyone. Ask yourself one question – "in order to survive in this world, why do people want to harm, steal, cheat, or lie to earn money?" I hope this question explain why staying alone is better happier safer.