Don't Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

Don't Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

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SUMMARY:
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It’s a great myth that we should never compare ourselves to others. How would we gain perspective, values, standards, ideas, ambition, or growth if we removed ourselves from our social context? The truth is there are healthy ways to compare yourself to others:

1. Compare for creativity, not looks:

It’s demoralizing to compare yourself to others at surface levels like appearance or outward success. Instead of asking how you can be like others, ask how you are different; compare to discover creative distinction not to conform. You can’t make any major contribution in life without understanding how you are distinct. You’ll access a new creative edge when you start looking outward and asking, “How would I go about that differently? What’s my perspective and how is it different? How could I add even more value in a unique way?”

2. Compare for vision, not followers:

Never evaluate yourself on the size of your friendship base or fans. If you do, you’ll always feel down noticing others have more than you. Instead, look to how others are serving, about how they’re shaping and moving towards a vision. When you meet people who want to make a big difference in the world, it makes a big difference in you.

3. Compare for growth, not achievement:

When you see talented people achieving the remarkable, it should inspire you to level up. If you can look at someone who is doing something better than you and it inspires you to grow, you have humility and you have a chance. If their success threatens you or causes you bitterness, you’ll never ascend.

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ABOUT BRENDON
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Brendon Burchard is one of the most watched personal development trainers in the world and a Top 100 Most Followed Public Figure on Facebook. Over 40,000,000 people watched his videos in the last 12 months, and over 20,000,000 see his posts every week on Facebook. A #1 New York Times bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket.

At the age of 19, Brendon was in a car accident that inspired him to turn his life around and follow his dream to be a writer and trainer. He failed at first, going bankrupt as he strove to write his first personal development book. But by the age of 32, he became a #1 bestselling author and a multimillionaire as an early pioneer in the online education space. Since then, he has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.

Larry King named Brendon “one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world.” SUCCESS Magazine named him in their Top 25 Most Influential in Personal Development along with legends like Oprah, Tony Robbins, Joel Osteen, Dave Ramsey, Suze Orman, Deepak Chopra, and Wayne Dyer.

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36 Comments

  1. I hope my fb friend grows into this. she was thinking small, and how I knew was, whenever I brought up anything that didn't come from dollar tree, say, a tiny dropper bottle at the health food store that cost x dollars, she tried to nicely, very nicely, school me on how poor people cope in life. and part of that is never setting foot inside a store that doesn't cater to poor people. poor is a mindset. one day I will have my own colloidal silver generator. whoa those things are expensive! but indispensable. do I stop at $400 dollars? is there any dollar amount that would keep me from putting that item on my vision board? no, not if it means helping the other 7.5 billion people on this planet. and see, I worked in a PSA for colloidal silver for yall. we win twice!

  2. Every morn I have to listen to this dude, regardless of what video , to start my day, or else.. Have been for a couple weeks . This guy really gets across. I even brought his book .

  3. Dont compare yourself
    1. Fan/Fame/Followers/Audiece
    2. Achievement/Wealth
    3. Looks/Appearance/Beauty

    Compare yourself:
    1. Creativity
    2. Vision
    3. Growth