STOP DOING These Things If You Want To FIND LOVE TODAY |DeVon Franklin & Lewis Howes

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Thank you for watching this powerful interview with DeVon Franklin! Check out the show notes here:

DeVon Franklin is an award-winning film and TV producer, New York Times best-selling author, international speaker, and spiritual success coach. He’s been interviewed by Oprah, Dr. Oz, Steve Harvey, Dr. Phil, CNN, and featured in numerous radio, print, and online appearances.

DeVon explains how one of the biggest problems in relationships is the lack of honest communication. We need to be open about our feelings about our partners.

So get ready to learn how to put love in control of lust on Episode 769.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

Why social media has amplified challenges for men in relationships (4:30)
How peace is the strongest barometer of your relationship (12:00)
Why women have to get out of the “grey area” when dating (21:00)
The reason it’s important to wait to have sex (23:00)
Why you have to heal internal pain (49:00)
Plus much more…

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Lewis Howes’ New Book – The Mask of Masculinity
Lewis Howes is a NY Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, and former professional Arena League football player. He hosts The School of Greatness, a talk show distributed as a podcast. Learn and hear the stories of various successful people around the world, become inspired, motivated and educated with the SCHOOL OF GREATNESS.

About The Author

Lewis Howes Lewis Howes is a New York Times best-selling author, 2x All-American athlete, keynote speaker, and entrepreneur. The School of Greatness shares inspiring interviews from the most successful people on the planet—world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature—to inspire YOU to unlock your inner greatness and live your best life. Visit him on: Listen to the podcast at:

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  1. My dad passed years back from Alzheimers. I took care of him for 10 years while I put life on hold. My dad was a good man. But he wasn't available when I was young. I don't blame him. We were immigrants. I had nobody around me when I grew up except for bullies and vultures. Now I'm nearly 50 with no kids and a failing marriage. I'm nearly broke (again), unemployed, and the gap between my wife and I is so vast we talk about divorce as often as Devon talks about how to deliver the goods. I'm unhealthy, sad, and broke. Odds are not in my favour.

    But it's OK. I'm still here.

    Despite it all, I wake up. I look for people I can help. I work. I try. I don't give up. I think and plan about how I can make my life better. Every day I wake, it's one more day. I can change it. I can work on the King inside. I know he exists. My heart beats strongly with him. He is me.

    I do it all because I have no choice. I'm here. I get one more day to try.
    May as well give it a go.

    To all men. No matter what you are going through, it too shall pass. All storms do. All sunny days end too. That's OK. We are men. We come to this earth to serve – both as partners and as servants to make this world just a little better.
    What else are you going to do?

    If you are a man, and you have no good men around, the best thing you can do is watch Devon and the other messengers. Soak in their wisdom. Seek them out. They are everywhere.

    One day it will all pass and when that day arrives, you will be thankful that you stuck around.

  2. This 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Knowledge is power. You can work through a long term plan, anything else, you can’t. Date with intent. Humanize her… don’t look at her as a sexual object. She’s someone’s daughter, sister, friend… Discipline changes so much…

  3. I love how he talks about trauma, processing, and healing. So beautiful to see a black man talking about losing a father, identity, and going beneath the surface. Suppressing feelings puts a scab on the surface, and the wound might still be oozing underneath.

  4. Wish I had listened to this man when I was in my twenties
    Would have saved me a lot of heart ache time and increased EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
    I was foolish and gave myself to unworthy men who got their fun and I was nothing to them the next day
    He should be compulsory reading for high school students
    Everyone would benefit from his well presented and logical advice
    I agree lots in life is about LOVE
    Start at LOVE
    God bless
    From Toronto Ontario CANADA